How to catch a cheater - the ways we communicate
Ladies, if you think your spouse is cheating, one of the signs you need to look for is how he communicates with others. I’ve opened up my exclusive male only cheater course to women so you all can better see if you are getting played.
One of the most difficult things to manage when you’ve got a girl or two on the side is how to communicate effectively without getting caught. Using your phone to talk to other girls is a surefire way to get busted, so it is important to have a lot of options. Years ago, you could get away with having a pager that your wife or girlfriend didn’t know about, but those days are long gone. Now we’ve only got a few choices, and figuring out this part is crucial. So I’d like to offer you a few tips on how you can communicate with your mistresses without getting caught.
- Use text messages whenever possible, but don’t be obvious when you do it. Text when you go to the restroom or when you are outside taking out the garbage. Texting is quick and easy, but there is one drawback. Texts can come in spurts and if you don’t end a conversation you can get texted at the wrong time. This is why I prefer to keep my text alerts on silent. Even if my mistress sends a text at the wrong time, I am still good with my girl.
- If you’ve got to call, make sure you are either out with the guys or on your own at work. Don’t call from your home or office because someone is likely to notice and get suspicious. Call when you are away from others, unless there are people around that you can trust. Best friends are ok, but the secretary at work is not.
- For the love of God, make sure that you constantly make a habit of keeping clear text and call records. If your girl gets suspicious, then tell her that you like to keep them all clear so you don’t miss any. If you do it every day, then it won’t seem uncommon and she probably won’t ask you about it.
- I much prefer having 2 phones if possible – one for regular use, and another for my girlfriends. Just make sure that you keep it nearby but don’t get caught with it on you. If you must, tell your wife or girlfriend that it is for work and you can only use it during the day. That one works like a charm. Having 2 phones makes communication easier because you won’t have to clear calls or texts as often and as long as you find a way to pay without her knowing, then you should be good to go.
To avoid getting caught cheating, you need to have a plan for communication. If your lady wants to catch you, then all she has to do is get your phone while you are sleeping and you are smoked. Voicemails and texts can get you busted in a hurry, so be careful and always keep them empty as a rule. Stick to your plan and you’ll be operating without worry, mess up here and you are toast.
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