http://www.foxynation.com/site/index/ en bkkrio@yahoo.com Copyright 2009 2009-02-16T16:10:29-08:00 http://www.foxynation.com/site/how-to-catch-a-cheater-the-ways-we-communicate/ http://www.foxynation.com/site/how-to-catch-a-cheater-the-ways-we-communicate/#When:15:10:29Z One of the most difficult things to manage when you’ve got a girl or two on the side is how to communicate effectively without getting caught. Using your phone to talk to other girls is a surefire way to get busted, so it is important to have a lot of options. Years ago, you could get away with having a pager that your wife or girlfriend didn’t know about, but those days are long gone. Ladies, if you think your spouse is cheating, one of the signs you need to look for is how he communicates with others.  I’ve opened up my exclusive male only cheater course to women so you all can better see if you are getting played. One of the most difficult things to manage when you’ve got a girl or two on the side is how to communicate effectively without getting caught. Using your phone to talk to other girls is a surefire way to get busted, so it is important to have a lot of options. Years ago, you could get away with having a pager that your wife or girlfriend didn’t know about, but those days are long gone. Now we’ve only got a few choices, and figuring out this part is crucial. So I’d like to offer you a few tips on how you can communicate with your mistresses without getting caught. Use text messages whenever possible, but don’t be obvious when you do it. Text when you go to the restroom or when you are outside taking out the garbage. Texting is quick and easy, but there is one drawback. Texts can come in spurts and if you don’t end a conversation you can get texted at the wrong time. This is why I prefer to keep my text alerts on silent. Even if my mistress sends a text at the wrong time, I am still good with my girl. If you’ve got to call, make sure you are either out with the guys or on your own at work. Don’t call from your home or office because someone is likely to notice and get suspicious. Call when you are away from others, unless there are people around that you can trust. Best friends are ok, but the secretary at work is not. For the love of God, make sure that you constantly make a habit of keeping clear text and call records. If your girl gets suspicious, then tell her that you like to keep them all clear so you don’t miss any. If you do it every day, then it won’t seem uncommon and she probably won’t ask you about it. I much prefer having 2 phones if possible – one for regular use, and another for my girlfriends. Just make sure that you keep it nearby but don’t get caught with it on you. If you must, tell your wife or girlfriend that it is for work and you can only use it during the day. That one works like a charm. Having 2 phones makes communication easier because you won’t have to clear calls or texts as often and as long as you find a way to pay without her knowing, then you should be good to go. To avoid getting caught cheating, you need to have a plan for communication. If your lady wants to catch you, then all she has to do is get your phone while you are sleeping and you are smoked.  Voicemails and texts can get you busted in a hurry, so be careful and always keep them empty as a rule. Stick to your plan and you’ll be operating without worry, mess up here and you are toast. Advice 2009-02-16T15:10:29-08:00 http://www.foxynation.com/site/michael-phelps-takes-hits-from-the-bong/ http://www.foxynation.com/site/michael-phelps-takes-hits-from-the-bong/#When:20:14:06Z So what!!! If he was smoking crack, it would be a different story.  So what!!! If he was smoking crack, it would be a different story Advice 2009-02-02T20:14:06-08:00 http://www.foxynation.com/site/it-is-trickin-even-if-you-got-it/ http://www.foxynation.com/site/it-is-trickin-even-if-you-got-it/#When:00:59:48Z There was a time when “bitches aint shit ut hoe’s and tricks” - Snoop was going around and every guy wanted to be too short or a pimp of some sort. Well it seems now days the only the ho’s and tricks are guys and the girls are pimpin’ us. So let’s talk about this term “It aint trickin if you got it” There was a time when “bitches aint shit but hoe’s and tricks” - Snoop was going around and every guy wanted to be too short or a pimp of some sort. Well it seems now days the only the ho’s and tricks are guys and the girls are pimpin’ us. So let’s talk about this term “It aint trickin if you got it” 1st I’m going to say trickin is trickin even if you’ve got a lot, a little or your bank account is at zero So let’s go into the definition of trickin’. The urban dictionary says Trickin’ is: To splurge on large gifts for a girl or boy that you like but don’t know very well.  John was trickin’ when he bought an expensive handbag for a cute girl that he had only spoke to once before. Fuck that .....I say the urban dictionary is soft and only gives 1/2 the answer. 1st we need to understand that the word “trickin’” as used today’s music came from the term “to turn tricks or turn a trick” or what prostitutes refer to their customers as “Tricks”. And we all know what customers of prostitutes do...Pay for sex. So that’s a pretty straight forward definition. The 2nd definition of trickin’ is A guy that has no game and must spend money on women in hopes of being able to have sex with and/or maintain a relationship. No matter what type of girl Kevin met , he was always trickin’ .  Sometimes on the 1st date he would take them on a weekend vacation to Los Angeles. In my rehab class we go over the 1st step to recovery is admitting you have a problem.  I think the major issues with some rappers/R&B artists of today are in denial. You can be an average bro and go to the massage parlor and get a happy ending during your lunch break for $80 (I did it yesterday) or be the Governor of New York and pay a call girl $4000 an hour.  That is the same as paying off a girl’s tuition or putting her in a log cabin in Aspen.  The math is the same CASH for ASS. You paid to play.  Or as my friends overseas say “No money No honey” So the next time you hear someone say “It ain’t trickin’ if you got it.” look at them as say BITCH PLEASE So yes ladies and gentlemen I pay for ass and it’s by choice, all I want to do is nut and get up.  I’d rather spend a couple of $ on a 30 min session then have 30 days worth of headaches from a gf that won’t teabag me.  After all at the end of the day my time is important and I need to spend it with the person that matters the most to me .. well that’s me :D Don’t get me wrong now I’m not condoning my actions in fact I do think his is a bad habit athat I need to overcome.  Hmm maybe one day I can set up a support group for tricks....... Wayne, Luda, Ricky Ross, T-Pain you listenin’? I’ll start “Hi my Name is Mr. Arrogant and I pay for Pu**y” Video Debate:  To trick or not! Question: Is it trickin’ if you got it? Have you ever tricked or been tricked on? Does this commentary suck?  Is Mr. Arrogant outta line?  Do you hate people that talk in the third person? Photo/Art by attercop311 Advice 2008-12-26T00:59:48-08:00